Is Loving Someone Wrong?

Still thinking about it...
 Hiyaa, all the beautiful people out there! How has life been for   you guys. For me life has been super busy, and recently, the best   thing that happened was my first-ever school trip to Udaipur. I’ll   tell you all about it in my next post.

 For today’s blog, I want to answer a question that came up during   a random conversation at a random time with one of my close   friend; one of those questions that stays with you even after the   conversation ends.. So, here it is:

 Kya pyaar karna galat hai? Is loving someone wrong?

 I laughed, because isn’t that exactly what everyone wants to do?   Love. Feel it. Live it. But then I thought about how it’s often   seen: “Galat hai, abhi nahi, family nahi approve karegi, timing   theek nahi…” Suddenly, the whole thing becomes this forbidden   puzzle instead of a feeling.

 I’ve also realised that most people don’t fear love itself; they fear what comes after it. The uncertainty. The possibility of being misunderstood. The risk of caring more than the other person. Sometimes we stay silent not because we don’t feel enough, but because we feel too much and don’t know what to do with it.

Let me answer honestly; words straight from my heart: pyaar isn’t about rules. It’s about connection, vulnerability, and the messy, beautiful parts of being human. It’s in the small gestures; the teasing, the stolen moments of attention, the way someone notices you without needing a reason. And yes, sometimes it’s inconvenient, confusing, or even a little scary. But does that make it wrong? Absolutely not.

What we rarely talk about is how heavy unspoken feelings can become. Rejection hurts, yes of course it does! but silence has a way of lingering longer. The things we don’t say often stay with us more than the things that don’t work out.

We live in a world where emotions are boxed, categorized, and filtered. But love, the real love, obviously not all those situational relationships, confusions, or being in a relationship just out of convenience, even the small, teenage kind is uncontainable. It sneaks into everyday life in a smile, a joke, or any little moment. And maybe that’s the point: love isn’t always dramatic or obvious. Sometimes, it’s quietly there, building in the background, teaching you patience, empathy, and courage.

This year has absolutely changed my perspective on love. If this same question had come up a year ago, I probably would have said “yes, it’s complicated.” But love is one of the most beautiful things you can give and receive. I define love as an addictively beautiful distraction; and yes, sometimes it’s blissful, sometimes messy, but always meaningful.

You will love someone with all your heart, and if it’s reflected back, that’s incredible. And even if it’s not, you will always learn from it. I know it’s easy to write on paper, but difficult to do in real life. But maybe, just maybe, taking that one risk will change your life for the better. Maybe you will find that person whom you always wanted in your life.

We often blame timing for missed connections, but sometimes it isn’t timing; it’s courage. The courage to say, “This is how I feel,” even when the future isn’t clear.

Maybe love doesn’t always ask for answers right away. Maybe it just asks for honesty; when we’re ready, in our own time. And maybe that’s enough to begin with.

So no, pyaar karna galat nahi hai. It’s human. It’s messy. It’s beautiful. And if anything, it reminds us that living fully isn’t about following rules; it’s about noticing, feeling, and daring to let life surprise us in the smallest ways.

If loving someone feels this real, can it ever truly be wrong? You guys can always tell about me about your thoughts. Comment down below or dm me on Instagram.

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Comments

  1. ShressssssDecember 20, 2025 at 9:55 AM

    Wow, this post really touched me. The way you conveyed your perspective was truly so real>>>
    I agree that silence leaves a deeper mark than rejection it stays with us longer. Reading this made me pause and think about my own experiences too.
    Can't wait for the next blog!! Love yaaaaaa! :)))

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  2. AnonymousDecember 27, 2025 at 4:44 AM

    This was incredible! Loved your thoughts here...

    Also, there's something I'd love to know about, which your perspective on friendships at this age. Because I've always felt like during the time when you're about to end school, you make friends that kinda leave their mark on you, even if they don't last forever. Some people just open the doors to different versions of yourself, and it's never all the same, which makes it even more exciting. Hope you could give some interesting insights on this...
    But for now, lots of love, you're doing great!! 👏

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    1. #Unfiltered_Shweta✨December 27, 2025 at 7:41 AM

      Thank you so much, this genuinely means a lot!❤️I’d love to explore this idea in a post soon. Thank you for the idea and for reading so thoughtfully !🤍Sending all the love...🫶🏻

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